Dressing Kids for May

Is May weather causing clothing meltdowns in your house? One day it is warm enough for shorts. Other’s you need polar fleece (well, I do at least). Kids don’t get it and the “…but I wore shorts yesterday…why do I need pants today?!” whine starts. Dressing kids in May can take some creativity.

For younger kids – give them the choice of two outfits. Only two. (Don’t open the conversation to letting them add or subtract things from the two choices – because this just opens the window for debate…in the morning…when you’re trying to get their butts out of the house and out in the world). The choice of two outfits gives them the power of deciding what they want to wear – and you the control over the appropriate dress for the weather.

For older kids – tell them the weather forecast. Or have them turn on the T.V. for a minute and have them tell you the forecast. Let them know; 2 C is cold, 15 C is chilly, 20 C is warm. So if they tell you it’s 7 C this morning – you can say – “that’s jeans, t-shirt, long sleeve + a jacket weather” and let them choose their clothes from there.

Do you have any tips on how to dress kids for the unreliable spring weather? Share with the club in the comment area!

Blaming January

Dear January:   It’s all your fault  ~from: moi
Reason the kids are melting down = January
Reason we are all tired = January
Reason the laundry fairy doesn’t visit = January
January is the leech of the calendar – it just sucks.
January just seems to take more energy to get off one’s duff than the rest of the months.  Extra effort to get out of the flannel sheets (flannel to me is what beer is to Homer Simpson).  Extra push to tackle the laundry mountain.  Extra coaching to get the kids to do their homework.
Perhaps my grey mood is because I am thinking of THIS and THIS these days (February was the due date…not that I should be harping…I know I shouldn’t be harping).
Is it wrong to blame January?…because it feels so right…

Accomplishments

Funny how something like clearing out your spam folder makes one feel powerful and accomplished (just did this morning!).  Same thing goes for cleaning out the kitchen cupboards (which I did this past weekend – and not-so-funny – found some pickled beets – good ghandi!? in what YEAR did I make pickled beets?!).

I am one that gets all flustered at a barrista counter…”um…can I have a small…no make that a medium…um…tea…oh, regular tea…sugar please…um double sugar…milk too…oh, um…triple milk?” I am well know for making simple decisions very complex.

Which is why – simple accomplishments thrill me.  Like tossing the beets.  I also gave up seeing New Moon* with my bud bc of THIS (which started off the massive accomplish frenzy this weekend – ironic THIS was dated around the same time last year). 

Spam folder = empty.  Kitchen cupboards =  purged.  Laundry = beast in progress.

*I gave up seeing New Moon because of the invasion visit of the extended family over the holidays, and now again this past weekend…dear magical creatures and deities alike – don’t I deserve a little Team Edward after all this?!

Elf help, fairy dust and other things

If you are not in the mood to read about fretting…read THIS or THAT

If you are an elf, fairy or other magical creature – who helps those in need - could you kindly pay a visit to my house because in less than 24 hours my in-laws arrive and I could really use a visit (hello? laundry nymph – this includes YOU!)

My in-laws live in a ‘nother country, in a ‘nother time zone, in a ‘nother continent…which means we don’t see each other very often.  And I’m still in the “I hope they like me…they really, really like me” phase of our relationship (after all these years I still feel that way – can you say FRETTER*?!)

Anyways, dear magical creatures…if you wouldn’t mind swinging by – you know to help with the cooking & cleaning & sock matching…I’d really appreciate it.

*fretting isn’t restricted only to in-laws…elevators, international plane trips and radio interviews also freak me out

Holiday Frazzle

Ho Ho…Hold on a minute…I received a few e-mails yesterday noting the confusion about the Visa giveaway being declared. Honestly, yesterday I woke up – looked at the calendar – did the integer generator (lovely tool that is) – and hit the road on errands — all thinking this was the week of the 21st.

A bit holiday frazzled I am. I’m not thinking in terms of dates but in task lists: who is left to buy for? what are we having for dinner? is there fruit for the lunch boxes? do I have all the research for that article yet? (and obviously, the traditional, is there at least one pair of clean underwear for tomorrow?!).

I appreciate the fact that yesterday’s e-mails about the Visa Giveaway didn’t rang me out (really, because I know everyone is frazzled right now and venting in a comment box can be so ‘feel good’ – and I am so glad you Parent Club readers keep it respectful!)

Parent Club: Family Vacation Planning


Every family wants a family vacation (especially in the summer months). It is great to get away – but it shouldn’t break the family bank. Family getaways should be – and can be – family budget friendly.

Whether you travel local, national or global — a family trip takes planning, organization and cost savings (that hyperlink takes you to a site that we found informational on planning a family vacation budget).

We often travel internationally and we try to book our plane tickets just outside the peak travel times. France is just as nice in October as it is in August (and – hey – all the French are on vacation in August anyways so most things are closed). We also rent apartments by the week rather than stay in a hotel (which is a more reasonable option at times). With one visit to a local grocer we stock up on breakfast “at home”, snacks and easy to carry fruits which means we go to restaurants less but still eat well on holiday (and I’ve said before the best fast food – is food you already have in your bag!). We also walk a lot (which saves on transportation). Little cost saving things but they are appreciated when the vacation bills come in.

Big picture: a family vacation should be a time to enjoy your family. Not something to create parental stress, budget concerns and shrinking balances. It’s not about “go big or go home”. It’s not about “keeping up with the Jones’” vacation. It’s about the right holiday decisions for your family. Does that mean – if your budget is limited – you can’t go see the mouse in pants? No. It just means you need to make a budget plan before seeing that pant-wearing mouse.

A family vacation shouldn’t put a family in debt. If this has happened to you – seek out help to get you back on track. If you are fortunate to keep you head above the vacation budget water then be sure to continue making informed decisions when planning your vacation and holiday budget.

For more on credit counseling surf over to this informative website (yes, click that).

Do you have a holiday budget tip to share with the club? Do so in the comment field below.

Parent Club Green Idea: Sending Coins to School

This Green Idea was e-mailed by a Parent Club reader…

You know how the school is always needing you to send in forms and cash for things like Pizza lunch, Scientist in the school, field trips, purchasing 50th Anniversary T-shirts etc. (and then there is also the Daycare…)

And how the amount the come up with always seems to include coins?? You know how you never seem to be able to find an envelope when you need one and how all those crazy utility companies always send you an envelope to pay your bill with even though you always pay it online?

Well I have started saving the utility bill payment envelopes (and any other unsealed envelopes I get from birthday cards or in the mail for other promotional stuff) and I put them in a basket on my desk and then whenever I need an envelope for something I take a big black marker to cross of any unnecessary info on the envelope and write something on it like “Boy 1 – Pizza Lunch $$ – Room XX” That way I reuse before the school hopefully recycles the envelope!!

Maybe other people have been doing this already but it is just something I have been feeling good about doing so I thought I would share…

We LOVE LOVE LOVE when readers share ideas, tips, comments, rants & experiences. To the tens of people who read Parent Club ;-) — thank you and keep em’ coming!

The Present Closet

You have a present closet right? c’mon be honest!.

An out-of-the-way-kids-don’t-know-catch-all of presents and presents for re-gifting for just-received birthday invitations. Filled with goodies bought on-sale, end-of-inventory or just happen to be interesting.

Because A.) one does not want to go to a toy store with children looking for a birthday present because meltdowns, fights and guilt purchases arise. B.) one does not always have the time to go birthday present shopping when there are deadlines, piano lessons and last-minute soccer practices. C.)on sale is just good math!

Love generic presents – long live Crayola! Crayola “anything” married (yes, I wrote “married”) with a pad of construction paper, stickers & glue sticks – and – you’ve got a great prezzie (and no that’s not a Crayola plug – buy Laurentian if you want but Crayola’s better ). Books are also great go-to boy or girl presents. Everyone could use another book (at least I think so).

hmmm…other generic present-closet-worthy prezzies…hmmm – cartoon dvds, soccer balls (who doesn’t love a ball?), ooohhh! kid cookbooks & lil’ aprons (geez…reminds me – where did the rice crispie no-cook-cookbook go? – did I lend it to you? Do you have it? We’d like it back please).

Where’s your present closet? What’s inside? Do share!

PC Green – Make Earth Day an Earth Year

Admitted: I am a PC shopper – out of convenience and brand loyalty. When I was sent information about the new PC G.R.E.E.N. products (just in time for Earth Day!) I was completely on board to share.

President’s Choice was been committed for more than 20 years of environmental sustainability. I have the PC reusable bags in my vehicle and at home*. Their bag reduction plan will divert 1 billion plastic bags from landfills by the end of 2009. This is a good thing.

Keep these in mind: PC G.R.E.E.N. Phosphate-free dishwasher detergent. PC G.R.E.E.N. Muli-Purpose Cleaning Putty, PC G.R.E.E.N. All-Purpose Cleaner (fragrance-free/dye-free). PC G.R.E.E.N. Active Oxygen Bleach. Why are these important? Because what we wash down our drains eventually go into our water systems affecting the environment and aquatic life. There are alternatives to phosphates and petroleum-based products. Fragrance is important to families with skin sensitivities and allergies; eliminating this element in products reduces the exposure to your family.

What else goes into my environmental shopping cart. Pick-a-size paper towels (whoever came up with this is must be a parent – we don’t need a whole paper towel for little messes! Well, except when THIS happens). Also, unbleached coffee filters and double roll bathroom tissue (both environmentally friendly and you wouldn’t be able to tell the difference from other not-PC brands).

I choose environmentally sustainable (yes, PC G.R.E.E.N. brand) products because it’s my little consumer part to do something for the environment. What do you do?

    p.s. The folks at President’s Choice/Loblaw has generously donated to Parent Club a package of PC G.R.E.E.N. Diapers which will be sent to www.eastendchildrenscentre.org (a non-profit Canadian children’s charity).

    *Parent Club tip: the PC Green bins work really well as recycling bins for your paper & plastics. For some time, I have had one in my kitchen, where the kids pitch their plastics as needed.

Amber Alerts and Scary Stories

This past weekend we drove through Woodstock. I remarked that there were a lot of radar traps and OPP on the road. When we crossed the border into the states – the U.S. customers officer asked us to open the back door to see the children. I thought – she was matching their faces to their passports – how thorough.

When I saw the news last night – I realized – no they weren’t just looking for speeders or routine border patrol – there is a little girl lost. An 8 year old girl, Victoria “Tori” Stafford, has been missing since Wednesday. I remember hearing about her last week, but it didn’t register as I don’t believe they called an AMBER ALERT.

This is every parent’s worse nightmare. Don’t you agree? This morning I talked with Thing 1 & Thing 2 about awareness…

  • The only people who will pick them up from school is me, my prince or their grandparents. I wouldn’t send anyone else. If someone else tells them I sent them to pick them up – they aren’t to go.
  • Tell me our home phone number.
  • If you – ever – get lost in a store go to the cashier. (a kid used to be able to go to any grown-up but blog knows who is a creep and who is a nice guy these days). Nope – go to the cashier. The cashier definitely works for the store, might wear a uniform to make them stand out from strangers, and will certainly have a telephone nearby.
  • If anyone does take you (blog forbid) what do you do? Thing 1 said “make noise, scream”. Yes, said I. You won’t get into trouble for yelling.
  • If anyone does take you – try to escape to a store or restaurant. “Yes, but McDonald’s doesn’t have phones to call 911″ said Thing 1. Every restaurant and store has a phone – you might not see it – but they have phones…ask the cashier.
  • Remember, Mommy and Papa will always look for you.

In addition, I think it’s good to consider Sharon’s comment to the Emergency Plans post about kids being scared of firefighters. Police and firefighters can be intimidating in their uniforms – but kids should know they are go-to people for protection.

Emergency Plans

I’ve been meaning to write this post since that night. But life gets busy – as life does – but something else has happened which prodded me to get this written. Today.

So rewind to a bit to the night – where my prince was on a biz. trip. About midnight the power went off (my first thought was – they always cut the power and phone lines before they kill you – that is how my mind rolls at night).

No lights, no heat. I carried, sleeping Things 1 & 2 to my bed, thinking at least if we were together I could keep them warm (and protect them from the Jasons, Hannibals and Chuckies of the world).

I felt compelled to write something on the smartness of making a plan for emergencies…but life happened. A reader sent me a link to THIS (months ago)- a good read and I put it on my to-do list for Parent Club.

Then yesterday, my kids had a lockdown at their school because a house caught fire on the school’s street. Someone died in that fire. The kids came home talking about the lockdown – how they walked out the back of the school, the police cars and fire engines. And, I thought – if the school has an emergency plan – why don’t we?!

Louise Geoffrion, Program Manager, Canadian Red Cross says: “We always try to get the message out that everyone has to be prepared. In the case of an emergency, everybody has a role to play. That’s why we train people in first aid and CPR and tell people to have an emergency kit. Being prepared yourself could mean saving the life of a loved one.”
Despite a number of weather-related emergencies in recent years, most Canadians are still not well-prepared to sustain themselves for the first 72 hours of an emergency. Check out “72 Hours…Is Your Family Prepared?” to read more.

You should discuss with your children an emergency plan. Do they know how to dial 911? What to say to the 911 person? (I’ve called 911 once – I’ll tell you the story sometime) Which neighbours to go to for help? (which neighbours are usually around, which neighbours we know, and to not cross the street).

You can read an emergency prepardness guide HERE – a good source for creating a family emergency plan.

You should also have a few supplies on hand in case of emergency. We have a nightlight – which is always plugged in – but when the power goes out it transforms into a high-powered flashlight (because it charges as it is plugged in). You should also have a first aid kit on hand, batteries, wind-up radio and lightsticks.

You could make your own kit or get a Basic Emergency Kit.

We are now prepared – are you?